What to Say to the Haitian in the Office?

by today Urban Chameleon contributor

Don'tlettheJCrewFoolYa

I know that white people in corporate America can be passive-aggressive and non-confrontational but I didn't realize what lengths they will go to avoid showing compassion for another human being.

I am a first generation American of Haitian decent. So, as you might imagine, the past month and a half has been sureal for me. In the blink of an eye, I watched my beloved Haiti reduced to rubble. Like every Haitian on the planet, I could not sleep the first week. I came into work everyday, only to keep the CNN livestream gonig and continue emailing back and forth with firends and family. At times, I just broke down and cried right there in the office.

The day after the earthquake, I took some time to send an email out to the entire firm letting them know that my family members had been spared and direct my colleagues to websites where they could donate and/or help. I figured, I would keep a step ahead of inquiries by sending out a firm-wide email. Little did I know, there would be NO inquires.

Other than the black folks at my firm, to my surprise, NOT ONE WHITE PERSON responded to my email. And as if the electronic silence was not enough, the face-to-face was mum as well. Day in and Day out, I walked into the office past a couple of dozen white traders on the trading desk and not a word. My manager? Nothing, I could not believe it.

So, finally I was inspired by my cousins and just started rocking a bandana of the Haitian flag straight across my forehead with my corporate suit to work.

Do you know that these white folks still didn't get it!~!!!!!??? Just last week in the conference room, the first thing one of the traders asked me was if I was on my way to the gym for a run. Are you serious?

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As you may already know Haiti was hit with a massive earthquake yesterday affecting millions.(Read article on yahoo.com) In times like these a little bit can go a long way. Even if you do not have family/ friends affected by this devastation we encourage you to contribute to humanity.

You can so eas send money to help Haiti Right now through your cell phone.

Send $10 to the Red Cross
Text "Haiti" to 90999

Or/and

Send $5.00 to Yele Haiti (Wyclef Jean's Foundation)
Text "Yele" to 501501

That donation will be charged to your phone bill.

Thank you for helping the people of Haiti.

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